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A Bodyworker Saved My Life Last Week
A bodyworker saved my life last week.
It was like magic.
Lance
Aug 4, 20242 min read


Texas Angels (pt. 1)
A 9th Generation Queer Texan’s take on family, hardship, and growth.
Lance
Jul 12, 20223 min read


Pulling You Asunder
“I’m sorry if I offended anybody,” I sad to my mom after a conversation with my family over the holiday weekend.
Lance
Jul 7, 20222 min read


Sweet Outsider
Is my faith about moving closer to control or leaning into discomfort?
Lance
Jun 26, 20222 min read


Handle With Care
Thoughts on self-compassion, evolving worldviews, and trauma on January 6th.
Lance
Jan 10, 20224 min read


Overhead Lighting: How Discomfort Can Lead to Change
Discussing authenticity and creating space with Danielle Skidmore.
Lance
May 6, 20218 min read


Sorry, No Change
Why I'm voting No on Prop B
Lance
Apr 30, 20218 min read


Peacemaking
I think I’ve misunderstood what ‘peace’ means for much of my life.
Lance
Oct 29, 20205 min read


A Different Kind of ‘Coming Out’
Tips & encouragement for new LGBTQ+ allies with religious or otherwise non-accepting backgrounds.
Lance
Oct 22, 20207 min read


Choking On The Vault
My experience leading up to taking medical leave for mental health
Lance
Oct 8, 202010 min read


Free Fallin' To Pieces
In the late fall of 2018, I went on medical leave for mental health from my corporate job.
Lance
Sep 10, 20205 min read


Healin' In The Rain
A step-by-step self-care guide during COVID-19 lockdown.
Lance
Aug 6, 20206 min read


This White Skin of Mine
Discussing my White privilege, problematic invulnerability, and dealing with discomfort.
Lance
Jul 9, 20207 min read


The Joy in Deconstruction: Discussing a Queer Texan's Pride
This year’s Pride post will focus on the joy in unlearning some Texanisms on my authenticity journey.
Lance
Jun 26, 202014 min read


Powers, Pentecost, & Protests - Oh My!
Discussing a favorite character from one of my all-time favorite superhero teams as we explore the intersection of my faith & current events
Lance
Jun 12, 202010 min read


Counting Cows & Taking Stock
One fond memory I have from growing up is going with my dad and brother to check on our cows.
Lance
May 21, 20205 min read


More Empathy, Please!
I have a concern that I wanted to share regarding our future, how we view the world, and how we treat each other.
Lance
May 7, 20209 min read


Turn By Turn
A story from my past that gives me hope for the present.
Lance
Mar 26, 20208 min read


How to Be an Antiracist | BraveNewLove Virtual Book Club
I shared in my newsletter back in January that I’d like to start hosting a virtual book club for folks in the BraveNewLove community who...
Lance
Mar 5, 20209 min read
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