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A Bodyworker Saved My Life Last Week
A bodyworker saved my life last week.
It was like magic.
Lance
Aug 4, 20242 min read


Texas Angels (pt. 1)
A 9th Generation Queer Texan’s take on family, hardship, and growth.
Lance
Jul 12, 20223 min read


Sweet Outsider
Is my faith about moving closer to control or leaning into discomfort?
Lance
Jun 26, 20222 min read


Choking On The Vault
My experience leading up to taking medical leave for mental health
Lance
Oct 8, 202010 min read


Healin' In The Rain
A step-by-step self-care guide during COVID-19 lockdown.
Lance
Aug 6, 20206 min read


The Joy in Deconstruction: Discussing a Queer Texan's Pride
This year’s Pride post will focus on the joy in unlearning some Texanisms on my authenticity journey.
Lance
Jun 26, 202014 min read


Counting Cows & Taking Stock
One fond memory I have from growing up is going with my dad and brother to check on our cows.
Lance
May 21, 20205 min read


5 Reasons to Try Chair Massage
I learned the basics of chair massage while I was in massage school but admittedly did not feel like it was my strong suit compared to table massage. There are some undeniable differences between massaging someone in a chair over a table, and I did not have enough practice with folks on the chair to offer the same type of quality service as I could in a table massage.
Lance
Feb 27, 20202 min read


Put On A Happy Face
“Your blog posts are so sad,” is something that I have heard a good amount since I have started making my writing public on BraveNewLove. The statement is true - many of the things I discuss on in my blog posts can be viewed as sad or unsettling, but a big part of the message of living authentically involves openly discussing aspects that shame or society would tell you to hide. A big part of the message of BraveNewLove is that it is OK to share these aspects of our lives so
Lance
Jan 30, 202016 min read


Love, Trust & Boundaries
I’ve received a whole lot of support from folks of all sorts since I started BraveNewLove and I am thankful for any person who takes the time to read - seriously, I’m not a big reader so I think it’s a big deal - anything that I have written. I’ve also received a fair amount of what I’m considering feedback on how to improve in terms of what I discuss and how I discuss it. I’m super thankful for those folks who have the courage to reach out with their opinions. One area has b
Lance
Jan 23, 202011 min read


Abomination
I’ve been carrying the idea for this post in my head for a few months now. If I’m being honest, the initial notion was planted back in the fall of 2018 when a stranger struck up a conversation with me on my way into the office, but I will get into that here in a bit.
Lance
Nov 5, 201912 min read


So Emotional
I have a confession to make: I teach ESL classes online from my home.
Lance
Oct 31, 201911 min read


Thoughts on Coming Out
Today is National Coming Out Day in the United States. Last year, and the year prior, I posted something specific about my coming out story, or why I felt like it was important to be public about my sexuality for visibility sake.
Lance
Oct 11, 20197 min read


Mobile Massage Services
This is an overview of the BraveNewLove mobile massage service offerings. In an effort to keep services straightforward, BraveNewLove has two distinct service offerings that will draw from multiple modalities depending on client needs:
Lance
Oct 8, 20192 min read


Heal Me
One thing that caught me off guard shortly after starting massage school was how common the term “healing” would present itself in the world of massage. This can range from using a fairly harmless phrase like “healing hands” to folks with massage licenses straight up claiming that they are a healer - Lance Pyburn, licensed massage therapist, healer, energy magician, etc.
Lance
Jul 14, 20194 min read


Under Pressure
As I shared in a previous post, I struggled a lot with the idea of me being a massage therapist. The acceptance and validation structure...
Lance
Mar 22, 20198 min read


Creating Space
Welcome to my new blog, Brave New Love! If you are back again this week after reading my miracles post from last week, welcome back again...
Lance
Feb 14, 20198 min read
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